I dubbed 2017 my “Year of Transition.” And as I mark 12 months since my separation, I can honestly say that life as I know it is almost completely different from what it was a year ago. It hasn’t always been easy, but everything I’ve gone through has given me the opportunity to grow.
For me, 2017 was a year of incredible change….
So, since it’s the season of lists, here are 12 things that I’ve learned during my first year as a single mom:
- I can make great decisions in high-stress situations.
- I can use a snake to unplug a sink.
- I can rise above negative situations. (If you’re surrounded by drama, try it sometime!)
- I can choose my mood. (see #3)
- Mom was right. Your reputation counts.
- I can assemble a hockey net – even if it takes three days!
- I can write more words in a month than I previously believed possible.
- I have a great poker face. (see #3 & #4)
- Simple things can make me very happy.
- I may be middle-aged, but I can still learn new things.
- Not everyone who is friendly is your friend. (But don’t take it personally!)
- Girlfriends (and male friends) who make you laugh are the best.
It’s full steam ahead for 2018….
I have dubbed 2018 my “Year of Momentum.” After the free-fall of 2017, I feel like my feet are back on the ground and that I’m on the right path forward.
Who’s coming along for the ride?
